Jonathan Rhys Meyers is seen with his fiancee Mara Lane, who holds their husky puppy
Dec 2, 2015
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Jonathan Rhys Meyers is seen with his fiancee Mara Lane, who holds their husky puppy
Dec 2, 2015
Job: 151202BZ1 Los Angeles, CA, Image: 268109145, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: 000, Model Release: no, Credit line: Profimedia, Bauer Griffin
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ŽIVOTNI UDARAC

Supruga holivudskog glumca otkrila tužnu vijest i otvorila dušu: “Osjećaj je to kao da idete dva koraka naprijed, jedan unazad. ”

Mara Lane, supruga Jonathana Rhysa Meyersa, proteklog je vikenda u dugoj i detaljnoj objavi na svom Instagram profilu otkrila kakva je životna nedaća snašla nju i njezina supruga te pojasnila kako se on nosi s tragedijom s obzirom na depresiju i alkoholizam s kojima se godinama bori.

- S velikom tugom, otvaramo vam naša srca i obavještavamo vas da smo J. i ja izgubili naše drugo dijete, koje smo neizmjerno željno iščekivali. Jonathan mu se posebno radovao, uzevši u obzir sve s čime se nosi…

9/7/17 Forever Young With much sadness, we open our hearts to share that J and I lost our second child, who was baking in the oven. Child was very very much wanted (right now especially by J, so he took the news particularly not so well) and we are still working with coping skills over here... when life throws us curve balls such as these. Depression is a real concern from past abuse as well as alcoholism which he was born with. He has been able to turn any ugliness and hurt in his life into art and is the strongest person I know. I do not know anyone who has been through what he has been through and reached his level of successes. It does seem though that every time we seem to be making so much progress... sometimes it's like two steps forward, one step back. Thank you family and friends and all of you lovely kind beautiful people who send us good energy and thoughts and support. It is so appreciated. I have so much love for you. To some others, my husband is an Irishman who battles alcoholism and depression and drank between jobs to try to cope with the sadness of this news. I am trying to and still learning/adjusting to living with the public, like one would as a concerned mother-in-law. I feel that whomever took photos of my husband was slightly in the wrong and was concerned for the wrong reasons but ... it's ok. It's ok. Maybe you have/had a family to feed and need/needed money? I don't know. We forgive you. He is safe and with his sober living companion and bodyguard to get into a detox closer to home since he was denied hospital help twice in Ireland because of an already two month wait period. Life is life. Life is beautiful. Life is tough sometimes though so let's try not looking down at someone unless we intend on helping them up. Sending love to those in... Texas, Florida, India and Mexico with all the natural disasters going on. We are both so sensitive and the past couple of weeks have been so ouch in our hearts for all humans and animals affected. With Love, M&J

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Ovom je rečenicom glumica Mara Lane započela svoju ispovijest o teškom iskustvu pobačaja, a s javnosti su podijelili i video koji prikazuje snimku ultrazvuka, ali i doktorovo obraćanje Mari u kojemu joj govori da fetus, nažalost, nema srčanog ritma. Video su objavili uz fotografiju stabla kraj kojega su pokopali njihovo nerođeno dijete.

To the showering of love received, thank you from bottom of our hearts. I am so humbled and got teary-eyed several times at how beautiful humans can be and so sad but hopeful with the stories shared of depression and miscarriage and addictions. Thank you for sharing your soul and stories back, as this helps us feel that we are not alone. Anyone who knows me personally knows I would normally never share such personal sadness (only because in my head, I would not want to burden others and because I trust that in time God will heal me) but I was happy to come to my husband's defense. I could not sit back and see him attacked by Darkness publicly during such a tender time. Thank you for coming to ours. Please continue to always write or comment about your days no matter what I share as when I see it I will return the love back someway or it will be read by someone else who can too. I so wish that I could support you on all your walks and sad days so hopefully the posts I share will make you laugh or lighten your days or make you smile/brighten them somehow. This is not a highlights nor lowlights reel, but simply an in-the-middle to keep in contact. I was very vulnerable in my last post as well as being at an all-time low and on such days I sometimes will feel the need for support, so thank you for being so kind to me and being a safe place. We will try to be more transparent on our journey as I see it may be helpful for others as well as ourselves. We don’t have to carry the weight of the world ourselves. We can help lift one another up. I have been given peace and Baby Willow is now planted in the tree in front of our home that has weeping long branches and leaves so we can brush our faces in soft leaves in passing or we can see the baby dance with the wind in the branches as they sway. It is helping me process the situation … as Nature does. Thank you again Dr Stu for getting us through that as watching a sonogram not have a heartbeat is very surreal and beyond sad. Thank you Father God for supernatural peace. May you afford those who seek you the same peace and may we grow as humans and have more compassion for all humanity.

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- Bebu Willow smo pokopali uz stablo pred našim domom. Prepuno je dugih grana i lišća, a vidjeti ćemo je dok pleše u granama koje se njišu na vjetru - napisala je Lane te zahvalila svima koji im pružaju podršku.

Iskreno i bez prikrivanja surove realnosti, svijetu je pojasnila i s čime se zvijezda “Matchpointa”, “Tudora” i “Vikinga” svakodnevno bori.

April 4, 2016 - MipTV 2016 Red Carpet before the opening party at the Martinez hotel in Cannes, southern France. Jonathan Rhys Meyers and wife Mara Lane., Image: 280565737, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: Worldwide rights, Model Release: no, Credit line: Profimedia, Crystal pictures
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Jonathan Rhys Meyers i Mara Lane u Cannesu u travnju 2016. godine

Nekadašnji holivudski zavodnik nestvarno plavih očiju svijet je oduševljavao svojom glumom, no depresija od koje navodno oduvijek boluje te alkohol u kojemu je tražio spas svojevremeno su ga doveli do ruba propasti. Fotografije na kojima tetura ulicom nebrojeno su puta obišle svijet, a skandal je izbio i kad je prije nekoliko godina zbog alkoholiziranosti izbačen iz aviona. Od svoje se ovisnosti klinički liječio više od pet puta, a nadu u oporavak unijela je njegova ljubav prema supruzi Mari Lane s kojom se oženio 2016. godine i u prosincu iste godine dobio sinčića.

Njezino silno razumijevanje, snaga i potpora vidljivi su i u spomenutoj objavi u kojoj svog supruga opisuje kao “najsnažniju osobu koju poznaje”, pojasnivši kako se nije susrela ni s kime tko je prošao sve što je prošao i on i svejedno toliko dobrog u životu postigao.

Meyersu se divi i zbog njegove sposobnosti da svu bol koju je tijekom života doživio prenese u umjetnost.

Spominje, nadalje, i njegovu ljubav, privrženost i zaštitnički odnos prema njihovom sinu, ali isto tako i veliku bol koju osjeća sada kad su doživjeli smrt svog drugog nerođenog djeteta. Nažalost, glumica je otkrila kako je njezin suprug nakon ove vijesti ponovno pokleknuo, a njegova je ovisnost još jednom uzela maha.